How do you know when it’s time to set a boundary? I shared one of the #1 signs to look out for in Bustle.
4. You Resent People
We often resent people for “making” us do things when, in reality, we have ourselves to blame for going along with whatever they wanted. If resentment is building up, you’re probably in a situation you didn’t want to be in — and by getting out of it, you’re doing the other person a favor, because nobody wants an unenthusiastic companion. “While you may think you are being nice and accommodating by taking other people’s opinions into account when making your decisions, it can often end up making you feel resentful if you don’t take a stance on what you really want,”wedding doula Elizabeth Sutells Bustle. “Perhaps counterintuitively, boundaries are the most compassionate thing you can do in a relationship.”
Click here to access the full Bustle article: 7 Signs You’re Letting Other People Make Decisions For You